
We had an appointment for the pest control service to come give us our quarterly spray job today and I almost canceled it, but then decided to go ahead with the job. At the appointed time a young man . . . about 25 . . . came to do the work, and I couldn't help noticing that he reeked of cigarettes, so I said to him, "You DO know that those cigarettes will kill you some day, don't you?" He sheepishly said, that yes, he did realize that, so I said, "So what could we do about that?" To which he answered, that he should really quit smoking. I told him I thought that was an excellent idea, and that I was sure glad he thought of it. Then he politely excused himself to begin the bug spraying process. About 20 minutes later when he finished he returned to collect the fee and said, "My condolences for your loss". I asked him how he knew I had lost someone, and he said he had noticed all the potted plants out in the back yard and all the pictures of flower arrangements on the dining room table waiting to have thank you notes written. He said that his wife had died of leukemia in May of 2004 and that he had a 4 1/2 year old daughter to take care of.
I'm not sure what it did to his schedule, but we spent the next 20 minutes consoling each other, and I told him I'd pray for him to have the strength to quit smoking so he could live long enough to take care of and enjoy that daughter of his and someday her children.
My son calls that "God prepositioning his assets".
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